Dr. Josh was quoted on msn.com regarding relationships...
"You bring a set of skills and attributes to the relationship and your significant other brings theirs. Don't settle for less than best, either for yourself or them. Look at what they have that you don't and strive to improve to get closer to their level. Maybe it's becoming more compassionate, maybe more athletic, maybe more scholarly. You're not becoming them, but take their strengths and let those set the bar for what you can strive towards. This way you remain independent but you never settle."
